This answer is really interesting! It is true that sex can be lots of work for guys, but I just hadn't thought of that too much I don't see the problem you have with my answer. Your confusing answer seems to agree with me that vaginal sex is more enjoyable than a bj. I've written nothing to be considered as 'rotten'.

‘More suction and pressure’
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Then I Google it and, after reading through the first ten articles, I am disappointed with humanity. Or because it means he gets to momentarily feel powerful. Or because he sees it as payback for all of the things he does for you on a day to day basis yes, these are ALL things that I found in the top search matches.
‘It offers what sex just doesn’t’
Everyone has questions about blow jobs, so I called up Dr. The truth: Every guy has preferences on just how wet things get during oral, but don't worry if you feel like you're drooling everywhere. That's part of what feels makes this whole thing feel good, so if you're slobbering all over it, don't worry.
I would leave him note reminding him how important his work was. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. I am so happy about 'starting' our life together in a few months, but I feel like I am totally setting myself up for disappointment.